A Dark Turn of Mind

July 18, 2011 in WEjr | Comments (4)

Lately, I have to admit that I’ve experienced quite a few epic disappointments. Here’s a list in pictures:

 

Impulse purchase to test WE's adventurous side. Fail.

 

Travis' Birthday Cake

 

The only tree in our back yard. Dying from the inside out.

 

US vs Japan: World Cup Finals. Lost in the shoot out. Boo.


No caption necessary! Just look at me.

Life would be so boring if everything always worked out the way we wanted it to, now wouldn’t it?!??

Here’s a shot that cheers me up no matter how epic the failure:

Look how big my boy is!!! What a cutie!

 


Lulu & Lee

July 15, 2011 in Family | Comments (7)

So, after my last post you could probably guess that I got the family history bug again. This time I had a very specific goal: find out more about Lulu and Lee’s wedding. (They are my great grandparents)

I had notes from my dad’s uncle Carl from a long time ago that they had been married in Oct 1910 in Weatherford, Oklahoma. But we did not have anything to confirm Carl’s personal knowledge. Not until today that is! Yesterday I wrote an email to The Western Oklahoma Historical Center and The Western Plains Weatherford Genealogical Society to seek out a marriage record. You never know how quick a response you will get from a place like that – but surprisingly enough I got an email back today with a copy of their marriage certificate. The volunteer there said that I lucked out and my relatives just happened to be found in a book that was recently indexed. See the record here.

I did a little more research online about Weatherford in the early 1900s as well. The OKState library site had this to say about the history of the town. It’s located west of OKC on historic Route 66. Before marrying Lulu, Lee had lived in Clarendon, TX (working there with his father as a grocer) and then also in Tucumcari, NM (where he was living with his younger sister Grace and her husband). All three of these small towns are located along Route 66.

The marriage certificate also answered a question that I had. Why did Lee and Lulu travel back east along Route 66 to Weatherford in 1910 to get married when according to 1910 census records – they were both living in New Mexico. Turns out that when Lee and Lulu married, Lulu was residing in Weatherford. Still doesn’t answer why Lulu had moved there from New Mexico but it does explain why they were married there. Dad suspects that Lulu was a school teacher. This might explain her status as a “boarder” in the 1910 census (April) in New Mexico. Also, according to Weatherford history – a regional school (Southwestern Normal School now Southwestern Oklahoma State University) had opened in 1901. Maybe she moved to teach school there? Maybe she went to work at the German Bank? Maybe she simply had other family that lived there?

At any rate, here’s a picture of the main street in Weatherford in 1910 (the same year that Lulu and Lee were married there)

I can only guess without more information, but I figure that she was probably a crotchety old (20+) school teacher, spinster that met Lee in Tucumcari,NM on her way to Oklahoma. Luck for her, he was just as old and couldn’t get his mind off such an intelligent lady so he followed her to Weatherford and made her is bride a few months later! I can only imagine how beautiful she must have looked in that dress.

One more interesting fact: Lee was actually born William Edward (verified by his 1900 census record). Apparently sometime in his late teens / early twenties – he decided to go by Lee. Family lore indicates he went from ‘Will’ to ‘Will E’ to ‘Willie’ to just ‘Lee’. Maybe when he met Lulu he decided that Lulu and Lee just sound nice together. :) At any rate, they had five children – Ercel, Lucille, Evelyn, Donald, and Carl. (Evelyn is my Grammy.) They are buried side by side in Wagon Mound, New Mexico.


Lulu’s Dress

July 12, 2011 in Family,Holidays | Comments (4)

Over the 4th of July weekend, we went to Colorado to my cousin’s wedding. While we were at the family dinner the night before, my aunt told me that they had pulled out Grammy’s wedding dress to see if they could take some of the lace and use it as the ‘something old.’ When I found out that Grammy’s wedding dress was really HER MOTHER’S wedding dress (making it probably over 100 years old) I insisted that my aunt bring it up from the basement so that I could see it! It wasn’t in great shape and was quite yellow – but I have to admit that I was IN LOVE with that dress the moment I saw it!

Now, if only I can discover the date that Lulu Bryan was married to William Lee Anderson and wore this gorgeous dress…


Purchasing a Car – WE style!

June 20, 2011 in Audacity | Comments (7)

So, WE ended up getting a new car for his birthday / Father’s Day since my car ‘Got Low’ and I decided to drive his little Civic to and from work (it’s a manual, I need to learn, and it gets about as good of gas mileage as anything for my 35 min commute to and from work everyday). Plus, once the Civic dies (or we have another kid, which ever comes first) – then I’ll get to choose a new family mobile for me to drive.

So here’s the story from my perspective – the practical, un-emotionally-attached-to-cars, Auditor of the family :) Maybe WE will tell his version too…since he is the fun, loves-to-have-an-emotional-connection-to-a-car, non-spreadsheet kind of person. In the end of this story: I think both me and WE came away learning a little something from the other’s world! :)

Anyway, neither I or WE had ever purchased a car on our own before. We had always had help (i.e. parents making the decision of what to buy and in most cases funding the decision as well). So this was a learning experience for the both of us. We knew that the Civic is on its last leg as well so we definitely wanted to avoid having two car payments. So we set out determined to pay cash for Sam’s new sedan – which gave us a pretty set range of we could afford on the price of the car. As the auditor, I checked our savings in Mint and gave WE a number that he had to stay under. Then we went test driving.

Oh… and we drove. I think we drove almost every mid-size to full-sized sedan on the market. We did our due diligence that’s for sure.

First thing we drove was the 2011 Hyundai Sonata. We loved the new design and this car got really great gas mileage. Seemed like a likely candidate. I loved the drive. Lots of cool features and a slick exterior. But once WE took the wheel, this car was out of the running. Fatal flaw – not enough leg room (width, not length like you might first think) in the driver side. The center console was a sleek curved design that made the driver side console too narrow for WE and his long legs. The other draw back was that we wanted the 2011 design and not the earlier models – but we didn’t really want to pay for a brand new car and have it depreciate the second we drove it off the lot. Ideally, we wanted a practically new 2009-2010 car with very low miles.

Next we drove the Nissan Altima. Very nice car. Very nice price. Decent gas mileage. Decent features. We weren’t in love, but this car was still in the running. The only negative that WE could come up with was the fact that two of his closest friends just barely bought Altimas and he didn’t really want to seem like a ‘groupie’ ;)

Off to the Ford dealership next door. We LOVED the features in the new Explorer (I especially liked that the third row seats came up and down at the push of a button and WE liked the My Ford Touch of course since he likes anything with a screen)- but we test drove the 2011 Fusion since we wanted a sedan. Fusion was nice – but did we want a Ford? I have to say, they have stepped it up alot! Most memorable feature was that the cup holders had LED lights around the edges that you could change to be whatever color you liked best. Cute – but not really infatuating. In fact, I think cute is exactly how the Fusion experience could be described. Oh yeah, and we liked the salesman there. He was genuine and he was from Sachse. In fact, his grandfather was THE Mr. Sachse that the town is named after. So, sure I guess Fusion was still in the running – kind of. The Fusion did also seem a wee bit smaller in the back for WEjr’s car seat. (Oh, and you better believe that WEjr came driving with us every time so that we could test out the back seat space and the trunk space for the stroller!)

Then WE told me about the Lexus ES350. I didn’t really know where this came from since I didn’t recognize the ‘ES350′ – only the Lexus brand name. WE was super excited about it and I immediately poo poo-ed the idea, of course, since we only had so much money – remember? WE has another friend, though, that bought a used ES a few years ago and WE remembered how comfortable the seats were and how they just ‘caressed’ his bum. Yes, folks – he actually used those words. Mind you, we had been talking about how the Sonata was out only because he hadn’t felt ‘caressed’. Okay, so after a couple days of WE hinting that we should just go test drive the Lexus, I finally conceded. The car was for Sam anyway, right. So we loaded up and headed over to Park Place Lexus. We told our salesman our price range and he recommended that we test drive a 2007 base model. Now, let me just tell you that with a luxury car – the ‘base’ model comes standard with lots of cool features already (bluetooth, leather, memory seats, sun roof, etc). So off we went with Kenny driving around in Plano. First impression for me was the quiet, smooth ride. It was a night and day comparison to the old Hondas we are both used to. WEjr fell right to sleep and the ride was incredible. After I drove it, I (the Auditor!) was sold on the car. Question now was did we want to get an old enough car to get down to our target price range?? So we kept test driving.

Next was the all-famous, everyone-and-their-dog-has-one 2011 Honda Accord. We couldn’t not drive this car since it’s the benchmark that all sedans are compared to. We chose the Honda dealer of McKinney. Now looking back, I wish we had never drove into that place and had just test driven a pre-owned Accord we saw on the Ford lot. Not because we don’t like Hondas (are you kidding, we both drive them and we did NOT need to be sold on the quality of the Honda brand). But we had the most annoying salesman ever. Okay, so he was new so I should cut him some slack – but my biggest complaint was that he wasn’t even listening to us and seemed to be as if he was quoting his training script word for word regardless of what we were saying. Also, this was the first place that the sticker price was not right there on the windshield so we actually went through the whole process of ‘getting the number.’ He made such an annoyingly big deal about ‘the number’ that by the time we got out of there WE had told the guy in no fewer words that the ‘people behind the glass’ must be idiots to have taken so long. Hello, we weren’t even going through the rigamarole of financing and we just wanted to know how much it was going to cost us! Aside from the lame sales process of playing the salesman off of the sales manager for over an hour, the test drive was actually quite nice. We liked the size – although the trunk space was actually a little disappointing. The other drawback was the road noise. As with our Hondas, the new model was loud and bumpy (especially now that we had already experienced the filet mignon, so to speak in the Lexus). Also, the features were scraping the bottom of the barrel in the trim that was in our price range. In the end, this just re-confirmed in WE’s mind that we could go luxury in a pre-owned Lexus with lots of features for about the same price as we could with an Accord. And he was blinded by love for the caress of the Lexus already. Damage was done.

So there I was asking myself – are we really going to end up buying a Lexus??? No way, I thought. Out came the inner, practical, spreadsheet girl. Also, around this same time our friend Trav told us the $ he had paid for his Altima. I was blown away by the great deal that he got and suddenly I wanted to bring down our original target price and go budget. That’s when we test drove the Mazda6.

Now a new Mazda6 isn’t exactly ‘budget’ but a pre-owned was definitely at the bottom of the price range we had discussed. So before long, I was trying to convince WE that we still needed to test drive the Mazda6. WE couldn’t come up with a good enough reason not to, so I finally convinced him. We test drove a 2010 with a meager 7k miles. Oh, and this car was bells and whistles to the max! It was the deluxe grand touring trim in sports-car-red with dark tinted windows. Looked like a million bucks. I thought for sure that WE would go for it especially since it was less $ than the Lexus but still very sporty with great features (bose speakers, leather, sunroof, bluetooth, good gas mileage, etc). The drive was awesome, I thought.  WE, however, was not impressed. Like I said, his heart was with another already and couldn’t be swayed by a flashy new entrant to the market. He finally admitted that while he was saying size was the Mazda6 flaw, the real flaw was that it wasn’t the Lexus. I had a theory (that I tried, but failed) to prove on facebook with my friends – that the Mazda6 was just more ‘girlie’ than the Lexus and that’s why WE didn’t go for it. Don’t get me wrong – it was V6 and packed a punch – but she was a cute, rounded exterior design and come on – Mazda’s tagline is “zoom, zoom, zoom” so they are obviously targeting the more feminine consumer…

At any rate, this whole time – WE is out on eBay checking for pre-owned ES350′s and making a spreadsheet of all the ones he could find in a 250 mile radius. Yes, you heard me right – WE was making a SPREADSHEET! Ha, I thought the world was gonna end when I saw this masterpiece of his. He had it sorted ascending by number of miles so he could easily see which cars were a good value for the price. VALUE was the word he kept using and to be honest there was one on the spreadsheet that really did stick out in value. Low miles, in our price range, and right here in Richardson. Problem was by the time we got home that day and headed out to drive it – the darn thing was sold! It was only up on auction for less than 24 hours and that baby was gone. Again, re-solidified in WE’s mind that this was really a value and we would have to act quick in order to get in on that kind of deal. So back to the spreadsheet he went – trolling eBay and Auto Trader all day long and adding cars to the spreadsheet. Suddenly, there popped up another ‘stand out’ in the crowd (there were like 20 other ES350s on this sheet). Less than 20k miles, right at the edge of our $ range, ‘base’ model in Houston. Bam! He was on the phone talking to the guy. First things first: had it been smoked in? How many owners? Carfax report?

The salesman told him it was ‘gunmetal’ black exterior (hard to tell from the pics) and had dark interior. Nice! (Okay, but really where else in the world but in Texas do you hear the color ‘gunmetal’?!?? Geez. But, it was not smoked in, no noticeable exterior or interior damage and before long – WE and I were not sleeping at night trying to make up our minds about whether we should buy the car or not buy the car. In the end – the question was either go budget or go big and WE loved big. And big was a steal of a deal and yes it was actually within the Auditor’s original number by the time you counted the trade-in value of my CRV. So – when all was said and done – the Auditor took out her big fat stamp o’ approval and said go big.

So that is the story of how an average Auditor and Engineer (okay not so average since we had actually saved up quite a stash of cash in preparation for this day) ended up buying a Lexus ES350 for WE to drive for the next 16 years. Ha, by the time WEjr gets it – Lexus probably won’t be cool anymore and certainly not a 2008 model with a million miles on it!

We don’t have any pics yet – but I’m sure that WE will be all over that pretty soon.

oh. ps. The only reason we didn’t test drive a Camry is because apparently all engineers drive Camrys. And WE did NOT want to be part of that crowd. I hope all you engineers out there take harsh offense and give him h*&! for that comment :)


Never too late…

in Family,Holidays | Comments (2)

Here’s a couple of my favorite baldies!

Happy Father’s Day, Papa!


Honda hardships

June 6, 2011 in Audly Enough | Comments (3)

My parents picked out a red Honda CRV for my post mission car because I was back in the USA for only 1.5 weeks before I needed to drive from Texas to Utah to start my last semester of college. They said they picked it because it was like my old red jeep (which they knew I loved) except got better gas mileage. It’s a ’98 with 160k miles so I’ve expected that I would just drive it until it died! It’s been a glorious 5 years and I’m thinking that just like the movie ‘Get Low’ we may have to throw an epic funeral party while it’s still alive in order to get it to die. :) It’s been stalling at super inconvenient times (like the time it was just me and WEjr and I didn’t have my cell phone with me and then again this morning on my way to work. It will start back up again but has stalled now a total of 7 times. When we take it to the shop, the stubborn thing won’t stall!!!! So they can’t diagnos the problem. We’ve been to Christian Brothers twice already and it won’t die, I even drove it around with the tech and it ran like a champ – ughh! Not very often you are wishing your car would die, huh? Well I’m thinking it’s time for a new car…whaddaya think Vern????


Big Al

June 4, 2011 in Family | Comments (6)

So I got to spend the weekend with my lil’ Sister recently and I was thinking lately how I wish we lived closer so we could hang out more. We did everything together growing up since we are only 18 months and one grade apart. Seriously we did it ALL together:

  • Odyssey of the Mind
  • Basketball
  • Soccer
  • Cross Country
  • Choir
  • Girls Camp
  • Missions Abroad
  • Graduated from BYU

She beat me to the altar and to the labor and delivery room – but we essentially have done that together too :)

Here’s the famous shot of me and Al as kids in the tub (Emily, you’ll get a kick out of this since you remember me having this pic up in our apartment at Heather Cove…)

I’m on the left and Al on the right

Here’s us 25+ years later with our own kids

We’ve come a long way, haven’t we Sis?!?!!

Get your Squishy Cheeks down to Texas…


Post Mortem

June 3, 2011 in Audacity,WEjr | Comments (6)

I finished my first week back at work before the Memorial Day weekend. I was a little nervous and a little excited… and had mixed emotions about leaving WEjr with someone for part of the day. Not that I don’t trust WE or the new nanny with him – just that, you know – I wasn’t going to be there ALL day like I have the past 3 months. Before I made the difficult decision about going back to work – I wrote a letter to WEjr to help sort out my feelings and express my thoughts on the matter. That seemed to help me out alot. I shared the letter with WE and he thought I should save a copy in my journal for WEjr to read when he is older.

Overall, I feel like we have struck an awesome balance with our new arrangement as I am leaving for work early (before WEjr is up for the day). In the morning WE is caring for WEjr and gets his daddy bonding time until 9:30 and then I am home again by noon. They go for walks with the jogging stroller, have breakfast, and tummy time (on dad’s tummy that is). The nanny is here from 9:30-4 so that I can work a few more hours in the afternoon after I take a lunch break to feed WEjr and have a little play time.

I am really pleased with the way the first week felt.

1) My co-workers were so nice to me and welcomed me right back with all kinds of sweet goodies – cupcakes, cookies, and this fun candy arrangement! I have a really fun and diverse team. I think they are the best!

2) I felt like I was able to pick up interesting and  challenging projects right away and I honestly kind of forgot how much I LOVE being at work. Also, as much as the commute is annoying – going in so early has trimmed it from 45 to 35 min and I also realized how much I enjoy that time to listen to the radio and keep up on the news/world events (something I had not had for 3 months).

3) I found the mother’s lounge at the office… which I never even knew existed! It was tucked away behind the coffee shop and there are two rooms that each have a chair, a table, a lamp, and an outlet. This was a really nice surprise since I was anticipating either holing up in the file room or having to book a conference room and put a sign up on the door so no one would walk in on me (awkward!) File room seemed the best option at first since that required a badge at least to come in and chances were less likely that anyone would walk in on me. Turns out the file room wouldn’t have worked anyway since there were no outlets in there…So discovering the mother’s lounge was a true gem and add to that the fact that there are lockers back there too.  I don’t even have to tote my pump back and forth from my cube every time. Woot!

4) Most important – WEjr seems to be doing as well as ever. He sure gets a ton of loving and holding and playing – just bam bam bam all day long. When WE gets tired – the nanny comes, when the nanny gets tired – I am home for lunch and play for an hour while she gets a break, when I’m done working – I’m just ready to play and relax/nap with him…then daddy comes home from work and we eat and start his bed routine. WEjr loves his bath time with daddy, massage with mommy, and then swaddled and off to sleep in his new little bed from Baba. He’s sleeping from 8:30-4:30 or 9-5 on a reglar basis now. He’s smiling lots and cooing. He’s starting to drool a bit more and also holds his head up pretty good. He has definitely discovered his hands and it’s cute when he’s trying to suck on his hand and then gets mad when he moves his own hand out of his mouth. Next up is discovering his feet and being able to sit up all on his own! He sure does have a wicked bottom lip quivering pout that I have to laugh at every time. But more and more he’s just smiling and cooing.

Here he is enjoying tummy time in his room.

ps. Shout out to Big Al for the cute decorative pennants that she sewed for me herself. Aren’t they fabulous?!??

Here he is sitting in mommy’s big work chair in the office.

Here’s a close up of his profile and *dimple* (love it!)


Look Closely

May 10, 2011 in WEjr | Comments (2)

If you look at this picture close enough – you’ll notice  a very long line of drool coming from WEjr’s mouth. Epic.


For Mom

May 8, 2011 in Family,WEjr | Comments (1)

Just wanted to say how much I love you and appreciate all that you have and continue to sacrifice for me. You are the best mom anyone could ask for. Hope you had a great day!

Here’s a cute pic of the day WEjr met you wrapped up in the blanket you made him: